Having that Particular Person



I can’t stop myself from talking about this post. I just had to.

Lately this week has been so hectic for me. Believe me. Work assignments tutorial tasks and many more coming each day. But even though how much hectic we all were. There was something backing us up. Having that particular someone to share it with.

That particular someone? Yeah we have family and best friends. But what if I tell you that you can have that whole package into one? I’m talking about having that one person who is your family and the best friend you ever had. And the best part? You could end up falling in love with that particular person.

Between the end of July and the beginning of August this year, I’ve been seeing many of my friends started to share their pictures with that particular someone that they stumble with. And they’re not strangers, believe me. They’re once classmates, schoolmates or even their friends’ friends. In that connection, they found each other and it was unexpected. Looking back, have you ever thought of falling in love with your classmates or even someone that your friends introduced to you? Obviously it will be awkward at first, but then you slowly realise that you seemed to know that person since birth!

It was impossible for me to believe how my friends kept telling me that they don’t believe in falling in love and some even intend to not even try to look. The worst one was, they said they hated the opposite gender. But I knew from the beginning, soon enough someone will break that barrier between them. They will have to say yes.

And now looking at them, I can’t stop smiling myself. Scrolling through Instagram or Twitter, I’ve seen how they wanted to share how happy they’re together. Some people might called them annoying, but different people different perspectives, so that’s not my problem. Anyway, instead of media social, their happiness in public seemed so obvious. And they don’t even have to work hard to keep it that way, all they did was having fun like best friends and be caring like family.

I’ve to be honest. There’s no such thing as perfect relationship. NO SUCH THING. Every happiness, there’s always sadness on the side. There’ll be fighting quarrelling disagreeing and thousands of incontrollable words coming out from each other. So what? When you love someone so bad, you’ll crazily love each other as same as how crazy you guys hate each other. That’s the secret.

I’m not saying having relationship is scary, same saying as not every part of the earth is beautiful. They can be scary but at the same time you’ll realize how you can’t let him/her go because, you just literally can’t! You’ll know what I mean.


Good night peeps. 
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